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In the psychological literature, prestige (status earned through the possession of skills and qualities respected by society) is contrasted with dominance (status earned through aggression and intimidation).

Interestingly, milestone achievements also offer a context in which we feel the positive emotion associated with success: pride.

Arresting the flow of timeThis is not the whole picture.

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Time in a life well livedThe predominant way we think about time these days is as a scarce commodity that we dare not squander and therefore must pack with achievements, experience or profit.